- Julie Barris | Crisis Counselor | Therapist-in-Training
- Feb 7
Repressing anxiety may seem like an easy way to cope, but it often leads to intensified feelings and can manifest as physical or emotional distress. The dangers of repressing anxiety lie in the cycle of avoidance, which makes the anxiety more overwhelming and difficult to manage over time.
Anxiety is a natural, and sometimes even helpful, emotion that alerts us to potential threats. However, when anxiety becomes a constant companion, it can feel overwhelming and exhausting. Many people try to avoid or repress these anxious feelings, thinking that if they ignore the problem, it will eventually go away. However, this approach often backfires, leading to heightened anxiety and even more distress in the long run.
The Repercussions of Repressing Anxiety
Repressing anxiety might seem like a logical solution. After all, if you ignore it, it can't hurt you, right? Wrong. When you push your anxiety down, you're not allowing yourself to process it. Anxiety thrives on avoidance. By refusing to confront it, you are likely to create a cycle of growing tension. The more you repress, the more your body and mind try to express it in unhealthy ways, whether through physical symptoms like headaches, muscle tension, or digestive issues, or through emotional outbursts and panic attacks.
Ignoring anxiety may lead to a temporary reduction in discomfort, but this "solution" comes at a cost. Over time, your anxiety can become more intense, uncontrollable, and harder to manage. In fact, suppression often strengthens the anxious thoughts and feelings, making it more difficult to address the root causes.
What To Do When Extreme Anxiety Hits
When anxiety hits hard, it can be difficult to know what to do. Your heart races, your breath becomes shallow, and your mind spins with endless worries. The first thing to remember is that anxiety is a natural response to stress. It's okay to experience it, but it's how you respond that matters.
1. Ground Yourself: Start by focusing on your breath. Engage in deep, slow breathing—inhale for a count of four, hold for four, and exhale for four. This can help calm the nervous system and bring your attention back to the present moment.
2. Challenge Your Thoughts: Recognize that your anxious thoughts may not always be based in reality. Ask yourself, "What evidence do I have for this thought? What are the facts?" Reframing your thoughts can help reduce the intensity of your anxiety.
3. Take a Break: Give yourself permission to step away from the situation, if possible. Find a quiet space, go for a walk, or engage in an activity you enjoy. Physical movement can help release pent-up tension and reset your emotions.
4. Reach Out for Support: Talking to someone you trust can be incredibly soothing. Sometimes, just expressing what you're feeling can provide a sense of relief. Whether it's a friend, a family member, or a mental health professional, connecting with others can help you feel less isolated.
Daily Self-Care for Anxiety
The key to managing anxiety is not just what you do when it hits; it's also about building habits that support your mental health every day. Self-care is crucial for maintaining balance and reducing the likelihood of overwhelming anxiety.
1. Exercise Regularly: Physical activity releases endorphins, which are the body's natural mood boosters. Exercise can be a great way to combat anxiety and improve overall well-being. Whether it's yoga, running, or simply going for a walk, make movement part of your daily routine.
2. Sleep Well: Anxiety can thrive on poor sleep. Establishing a healthy sleep routine is vital for mental health. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night, and create a relaxing bedtime ritual to signal your body it's time to wind down.
3. Practice Mindfulness: Incorporating mindfulness practices into your day can help you stay grounded and reduce anxiety. Try meditating for 5-10 minutes a day, practice deep breathing, or simply be present in the moment by focusing on your senses.
4. Nourish Your Body: Eating a balanced, nutritious diet is vital for mental health. Certain foods can help stabilize your mood and energy levels, while processed foods, caffeine, and sugar may trigger anxiety symptoms. Make an effort to eat a variety of whole, healthy foods that support your body and mind.
5. Set Boundaries: Stress and burnout can exacerbate anxiety. It's important to set boundaries in your personal and professional life. Saying "no" when necessary, taking breaks, and prioritizing self-care can help prevent anxiety from taking over your life.
The Takeaway
Anxiety doesn't have to control your life. By facing it head-on, challenging irrational thoughts, and integrating self-care habits, you can break the cycle of repression and create healthier ways to manage anxiety. So, the question remains: Are you ready to stop suppressing your anxiety and start taking control of your mental health?
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